Advice columnist Annie Lane is a young wife and mother with a gift for helping other people solve problems. In a voice that's sympathetic, funny and firm, Lane provides common-sense solutions to life's dilemmas.

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Dear Annie: Readers weigh in on abusive relationship

Dear Readers: The letter from a woman who is thinking about walking out on her 40-year marriage struck a chord, and many of you thought my suggestion of marriage counseling was the wrong advice, even though I said that if the counseling proved fruitless, she would know what to do.

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Dear Annie: OCD is controlling friend

Dear Annie: I have a friend, “Sarah,” who openly admits to having obsessive-compulsive disorder but isn’t receiving any kind of treatment for it.

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Dear Annie: Husband prioritizes his grown kids over wife

Dear Annie: My husband and I both have adult kids from our prior lives.

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Dear Annie: High schooler has social anxiety

Dear Annie: I’m a freshman in high school, and I’m starting to make friends. I’m always trying to be silly with them. I guess I enjoy the validation when they laugh. But I don’t want to be seen as too crazy or immature.

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Dear Annie: My son is with the wrong woman

My 25-year-old son, “Andy,” has been dating “Cassie” for a year and a half.

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Dear Annie: In-laws don’t care about others

Dear Annie: I know that I am very lucky to have a pair of active in-laws who love their children and grandchildren.

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Dear Annie: Not the right gift

Dear Annie: With Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day coming soon, I would like to make a suggestion to children who send gift cards to their mothers or fathers.

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Dear Annie: Stuff, stuff and more stuff

Dear Annie: Can hoarding be cured? If not, I’ve reached the end of my rope.

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Dear Annie: Sad Valentine’s Day memories

Dear Annie: Each Valentine’s Day, I am filled with incredible sadness. Two years ago, my husband and I were expecting our first baby girl.

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Dear Annie: Troublesome drinking and driving

Dear Annie: I have been married for 25 years. My husband grew up in a foreign country and has been drinking alcohol his whole life. He drinks beer the way I drink water.

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